I’ll be honest with you: I didn’t discover the sphinx sex position until way later than I should have. And oh wow, once I did? Game-changer. If you’re looking for a sex position that combines deep connection, intense pleasure, and actual comfort (yes, even if you’ve got a bad back or luscious thighs), the sphinx position might just become your new favorite.
Maybe you’ve heard the term floating around, or maybe this is your first time coming across it while searching for ways to spice things up in bed. Either way, I’ve got you. In this guide, I’ll walk you through everything you need to know about the sphinx sex position – how to do it right, why it feels so damn good, and how to make it work for your body, no matter its shape or size.
If you’re ready for that sweet sweet combo of support, closeness, and orgasmic pressure… let’s get into it.
What Is the Sphinx Sex Position?
Basic Description and Body Placement
So, what exactly is the sphinx position? Imagine this:
You’re lying chest-down, propped up slightly on your forearms like a lounging cat—or, yep, like the ancient Egyptian statue it’s named after. Your lower body stays relaxed while your hips tilt slightly upward. Your partner positions themselves behind and above you, typically in a kneeling posture, aligning for a forward-angled thrust.
Sounds simple, right? But the magic is in the details. Your torso gets support from your arms and the bed, your hips are elevated just enough, and there’s fantastic access for deep strokes and clitoral stimulation.
Why It’s Called the Sphinx Position
The name? Pretty poetic. It comes from that iconic pose of the Great Sphinx: reclining, regal, with a lifted chest and powerful energy. This position mimics that same posture—with the bonus of a mind-blowing sexual experience.
Benefits of the Sphinx Position
Enhanced Intimacy and Eye Contact
Though this is technically a rear-entry position, you’re still close—literally and energetically. Your head stays turned toward your partner (or a mirror, if you’re into that), making it way easier to lock eyes, whisper dirty sweet nothings, and build emotional intimacy while you get physical.
Comfort and Support for Both Partners
Unlike doggy style, the sphinx gives you forearm and bed support. That’s a huge win if you deal with sore wrists, tight hips, or plus-size thighs that deserve some rest. I love that it removes pressure from my lower back, yet still lets me control depth and rhythm if I want to.
Deep Penetration and G-Spot Stimulation
This angle is a G-spot jackpot. With your hips slightly raised and your back in a gentle arch, your partner’s thrusts can hit the front wall of the vagina just right. If you (or your partner) have a penis, this also offers fantastic pressure and friction without overexertion.
How to Do the Sphinx Position Correctly
Step-by-Step Guide
- Start by lying on your stomach, comfy on a bed or padded surface.
- Prop yourself up on your forearms, keeping your chest slightly lifted and relaxed.
- Bend one or both knees slightly outward to open your hips a little if it feels good.
- Your partner aligns behind you on their knees, positioning themselves for penetration.
- Slowly ease into motion, letting your bodies sync up in rhythm.
Tips for Comfort and Stability
- Place a soft pillow under your chest or stomach for added cushion and spinal alignment.
- If your shoulders get tired, slowly lower to one side or use a wedge pillow to support your upper body.
- Encourage slow starts until you find your flow—no need to rush into deep thrusting before you’re both warmed up.
Best Variations and Modifications
Sphinx with Pillow Support
My go-to move when I want extra comfort? Adding a pillow or wedge under my chest or hips. It’s not just cozy—it also boosts the pelvic angle if you want even more targeted penetration. For plus-size bodies, especially, this can open the hips and alleviate pressure on the arms or knees.
Hands-Free or Lazy Variations
If you’re tired or managing joint issues, try lowering your torso completely and using the “lazy sphinx.” Your arms stay by your sides as your head rests on a pillow. It’s incredibly relaxing and allows your partner to do more of the motion work while you just enjoy the ride.
Role of Toys and Accessories
Pro tip: a wedge sex pillow (like the Liberator Ramp) elevates the whole experience. Literally. It can enhance the angle, reduce strain, and make reaching your most sensitive zones easier. If you like external stimulation, a hands-free vibrator like the We-Vibe Chorus between you and the bed? Absolute bliss.
Who the Sphinx Position Is Best For
Beginner-Friendly Nature
This is one of the most beginner-friendly rear-entry positions out there. It’s low-impact, easy to enter, and doesn’t require acrobatic skills. If you’re new to experimenting with different positions, sphinx is a soft yet spicy starting point.
Ideal for Different Body Types
Listen, I’m on the curvier side, and believe me when I say: this position WORKS for larger bodies. You’re supported, you’re grounded, and best of all? No awkward angles where your belly or thighs get in the way. It’s also great for taller or shorter partners, since positioning can easily be adjusted with pillows or leg placements.
Things to Consider for Physical Limitations
If you’ve got shoulder, elbow, or back issues, support is everything. Try alternative arm placements, or go full-body supported on a wedge to relieve joint tension. Communication with your partner and experimentation will help you make it your own.
Communication and Connection Tips
Building Trust and Vulnerability
When you’re face-down, there’s a certain vulnerability in that. That’s not a bad thing. It’s actually an opportunity. Tell your partner what you need to feel safe, sexy, and seen. And if you’re the one behind? Offer affirmations, strokes, and presence. This position is as much emotional as it is physical.
Verbal and Non-Verbal Feedback
Check in with each other often. Moans, sighs, arching your back—these are all signs you can play off of. But don’t underestimate the power of a whispered “more of that,” or “slower, please.” The quiet intensity of this position makes communication even more electric.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Posture Errors
I’ve learned this the hard way: your neck and back will thank you if you keep your spine aligned rather than craning your head. Also, avoid locking your elbows; keep a slight bend to prevent tension.
Neglecting Foreplay or Aftercare
This position is amazing, but diving in too fast can make it feel disconnected. Prioritize warm-up—soft touches, oral, grinding. And after? Slow kisses, cuddling, or affirming words can turn good sex into meaningful connection.
Safety and Comfort Considerations
Preventing Neck or Back Strain
Rotate your head side to side to reduce tension, or use a travel pillow to cradle your neck. If pressure builds in your even slightly arched back, don’t be afraid to stop, shift, or glideslide into a pillow-supported variation.
Setting the Right Ambiance
This isn’t just about mechanics—it’s about mood. Dim the lights. Light a candle. Put on music that makes you feel alive and sexy. I’m all for foreplay playlists and rooms that make you feel like a goddess temple. You deserve that kind of space.
Conclusion
Here’s the truth: the sphinx sex position is a quiet powerhouse. It’s accessible, sensual, and surprisingly versatile. When I first tried it, I realized how good sex didn’t have to mean overexertion or acrobatics—it just had to be aligned, intentional, and tailored to my body.
If you’ve been searching for a sex position that supports your body *and* stokes the fire? This might just be your favorite discovery yet. Try it. Adjust it. Make it your own. Your body deserves pleasure that fits you, exactly as you are, right now.
If you have questions or want more tips on positions for curvier bodies or chronic pain-friendly options, I’d love to hear from you in the comments. Sex is for EVERY body—and you, gorgeous, are 100% worthy of it.
