Let’s be real – if you’re using a pocket pussy (and YES, I completely support that you are), you’ve probably asked yourself at some point: how the heck do I actually clean this thing properly? I remember standing in my bathroom the first time I used mine, half-turned between laughing at myself and Googling “how to clean pocket pussy” while holding it like a raw chicken breast. Awkward? A little. Necessary? Absolutely.
Here’s the truth: cleaning your sex toys, especially a pocket pussy, isn’t just a responsible adult move – it’s about owning your pleasure and protecting your body. And sweetheart, there is no shame in taking care of the things that bring you joy.
In this guide, I’m going to walk you through exactly how to clean your pocket pussy from start to finish. No fluff, no confusion – just real, practical advice you can use tonight (because let’s face it, I hope you’re using it regularly). Let’s dive in.
Why Cleaning Your Pocket Pussy Matters
Health and Hygiene Benefits
Your body deserves the best, period. And when we don’t clean our pocket pussies regularly, we create the perfect little breeding ground for bacteria, mold, and yeast. That’s not sexy – it’s a fast track to irritation, infections, and a stank you cannot Febreze away.
If your skin is sensitive (like mine), even minor neglect can lead to itching, soreness, or irritation after use. Cleaning thoroughly keeps your toy body-safe and your parts happy.
Preserving Material and Extending Lifespan
Pocket pussies aren’t cheap. The good ones can run you a pretty penny, and they’re worth every cent – but only if you care for them. Materials like TPE or silicone need gentle, intentional care to avoid breakdown, tearing, or material degradation.
Ever had a toy start to feel sticky or lose its texture? That’s material breaking down. Cleaning regularly (and properly drying, which I’ll get into) keeps your toy feeling like new.
What You’ll Need to Clean a Pocket Pussy
Gentle Soap or Toy Cleaner
I always recommend a mild, unscented antibacterial soap or a designated sex toy cleaner (like the ones from Sliquid or Lovehoney – both gentle, body-safe formulas). Avoid anything with fragrance, alcohol, or harsh chemicals. If you’d avoid it near your bits, you should avoid it near your toy.
Warm Water
Lukewarm water is your best friend here. Hot water might damage delicate materials over time, while cold won’t properly break down bodily fluids and lube residues.
Drying Tools (Towel, Drying Rack, Powder)
I personally lay mine onto a clean, lint-free towel. Some folks also love using a mesh drying rack or even specially-designed holders that allow the toy to dry internally. And yes – renewal powder (like the kind from Fleshlight) is a game-changer if your toy starts feeling tacky.
Step-by-Step Guide to Cleaning a Pocket Pussy
Rinse Immediately After Use
This is non-negotiable: rinse as soon as possible. I know post-orgasm cleanup isn’t glamorous, but the longer fluids sit in your toy, the harder it is to clean later (not to mention the bacteria party that kicks off within minutes).
Hold the sleeve under warm running water and flush out the entire canal thoroughly. Massage the outside to loosen any lingering lube, fluid, or debris.
Apply Mild Soap or Toy Cleaner
Apply a small amount of soap or cleaner directly into the interior canal and onto the outside. Use your fingers or a soft brush (like a toy-specific brush or even a baby bottle brush) to gently scrub all surfaces.
Focus on the entry, any crevices, and the internal texture inside the canal. Be gentle – pressure is good, but scrubbing too hard can cause micro-tears or damage the material.
Thoroughly Rinse and Drain
Give it a solid rinse inside and out. Trust your senses: it should feel squeaky clean with no slick or soapy residue.
I like to squeeze the sleeve (if it’s soft) to force clean water through the canal and make sure everything’s been flushed out. Then give it a good shake to remove excess water.
Let It Air Dry Completely
This part’s easy to gloss over… but it’s critical. You must let it dry 100% before storing it. Any remaining moisture = a mold risk. And no, you can’t “just use it again later” before it dries – it needs to breathe.
Prop it open (you can even use a rolled-up microfiber cloth inside the canal to hold it open) and either lay flat or position it upright on a rack. Drying can take a few hours, so be patient.
Optional: Apply Renewal Powder for Maintenance
If your sleeve is made from TPE or Superskin, it might start to feel sticky once dry. That’s totally normal. Rub a pinch of renewal powder or pure cornstarch on the surface to restore the soft, dry feel.
I do this maybe once a week—not after every wash, but whenever the material feels a little gummy.
Deep Cleaning and Special Care Tips
How Often to Deep Clean
If you’re using your toy multiple times per week (no judgment – I love that for you), aim to deep clean it once a week on top of your regular rinse-and-dry routine. A deep clean just means paying extra attention to less obvious crevices or giving it a long soak in warm soapy water for 10–15 minutes.
Cleaning Dual-Layer or Electronic Versions
If your pocket pussy comes with a case or electronic vibrations (like the TENGA Flip or Kiiroo Keon sleeves), check the manual. Most sleeves can still be removed and washed, but electronics obviously can’t go under running water.
I use a damp washcloth sprayed with toy cleaner to wipe non-washable parts. Always make sure moving parts are dried completely to prevent rust or buildup.
Mistakes to Avoid When Cleaning
Avoiding Harsh Soaps and Cleaning Agents
Please, please don’t reach for your kitchen antibacterial spray or bathroom bleach. I had a reader once message me about using hand sanitizer as a cleaner – that is a hard no. Stick to toy-safe options that were literally made for intimate contact.
Skipping the Drying Step
But skipping the drying step is the fastest way to ruin your toy. Moisture leads to mold, especially inside the tight internal canals that never see the light of day. If you’re short on time, at least towel-dry what you can and leave it out to finish drying naturally.
How to Store Your Pocket Pussy Properly
Choosing a Cool, Dry Place
Heat, humidity, and light will all wear down your toy’s material over time. I like to store mine in a drawer with a few silica gel packets to keep things extra dry (you can reuse ones from packaging or buy them cheap online).
Using Storage Bags or Cases
Use a soft cloth bag, breathable pouch, or the original case if it’s hard shell. Just don’t store it in plastic (it can trap moisture) or touching other toys made from different materials, which can cause chemical breakdown. Yep, that’s a thing.
Bonus tip: If you’re someone with less mobility or living in a shared space, look into discreet toy storage solutions like lockable boxes or organizers that are easy to open and clean.
When to Replace Your Pocket Pussy
Signs of Wear or Mold
If you notice black spots, fuzz or an odor that no amount of washing gets rid of – it’s mold. I know it sucks to toss a pricey toy, but trust me: if it’s growing things, it’s time to let it go.
Material Breakdown or Unpleasant Odors
If the material starts to feel sticky or gummy no matter how often you wash it, or if there are visible tears, cracking, or it’s losing shape – it’s wearing out. Even high-quality pocket pussies have a shelf life if you’re using them regularly.
Think of it like retiring a favorite pair of shoes. They had a beautiful run. Now it’s time to treat yourself to something new (and maybe even better).
Here’s the deal, babe:
Taking care of your pocket pussy is about more than toy maintenance. It’s about honoring your desire and treating your pleasure tools with the same respect you’d give anything intimate and important. When I started cleaning mine properly, it became part of the ritual – and honestly, part of the care I give to myself.
You deserve clean, body-safe, fabulous-feeling toys that work for your body and your life. And that starts with knowing exactly how to clean a pocket pussy and doing it with confidence (and maybe even a little pride).
So… tell me: did you learn something new today? Do you have a favorite drying hack I should try? Leave me a comment or message me – I love hearing your tips. And remember, sexy is a state of mind… and yours is spotless.
