Okay, so let’s talk about something that most people won’t say out loud… but absolutely think about: sex positions that actually feel amazing, work with *your* body (not just what you see in porn), and deepen connection with your partner.
Now, when I first heard about the camel sex position, I was both curious and skeptical. The name? Wild. The promise? Deep penetration, intense eye contact, and *major* connection. But let me tell you right now: once I tried it and made some body-positive tweaks, it became one of my absolute favorites.
And listen, I know how frustrating it can be out there. You’ve got positions that look great in theory but feel awkward or straight-up uncomfortable in real life – especially if you’re plus-size, have joint issues, or just want something *slow and sensual*, not Cirque du Soleil. That’s where the camel position really shines.
This guide is your open, honest, no-shame breakdown of the camel sex position. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or totally ready, I’m walking you through exactly how to do it, how to feel amazing in it, and how to make it work for *your* body.
What Is the Camel Sex Position?
Origin and Name Meaning
The camel sex position gets its name from the physical arrangement – the receiver kneels upright, torso tall, much like the shape of a camel’s hump. It’s not an ancient Kama Sutra classic, but it’s been quietly buzzed about in sex-positive spaces thanks to how it combines intimacy and access.
The name might sound funny, but I promise the position is anything but a joke. Once you understand it, it’s a real gem in your bedroom toolkit – and adaptable to all kinds of bodies.
How the Position Works
Here’s the basic idea:
- The receiving partner kneels on a soft surface (bed, yoga mat, or cushion), keeping their spine straight and hips relaxed.
- The penetrating partner kneels or stands behind, depending on bed height and partner height difference.
- The angle naturally allows both hands to be free for caresses or support, and eye contact can happen over the shoulder.
Unlike more acrobatic rear-entry positions, the camel is surprisingly grounded – no fancy gymnastics required. It’s slow, steady, and super intimate.
Benefits of the Camel Position
Increased Intimacy and Eye Contact
One of my biggest surprises when I tried the camel position? The intensity of the emotional connection. Even though you’re not face-to-face, turning your head to connect, whisper, moan, or talk dirty feels really natural in this pose.
And that kind of *intentional closeness*? It’s rare in a rear-entry position. Total game-changer for anyone who wants more connection alongside strong physical sensation.
Deep Penetration Potential
Thanks to the upright posture and tilt of the hips, the camel gives the penetrating partner excellent access. Expect deeper strokes, with more precision for hitting the G-spot or prostate depending on anatomy.
It’s great if you or your partner love that connected, full-body thrum that comes from deep, slow penetration.
Ideal for Slower, Sensual Motion
Despite the name, the camel isn’t a fast-paced, pounding position. And honestly? That’s part of what I love about it. There’s an elegance to the movement – think slow grind instead of jackhammer thrust.
This makes it amazing for extended play, sensual exploration, or tantric-style sessions. Add lube, music, candlelight… chef’s kiss.
How to Perform the Camel Sex Position
Step-by-Step Guide
Here’s exactly how I coach couples (and use myself!) to get comfortably into the camel position:
- Start with the receiver kneeling on a soft surface, with thighs slightly apart and back upright – almost like sitting on your heels in yoga.
- The penetrating partner positions themselves behind, either kneeling close or standing if needed based on bed height.
- Place one hand on your partner’s hip for balance, and use your free hand to guide entry slowly and with lube.
- Maintain gentle rhythm – think slow grinding, with fluctuating depth to find each other’s favorite angles.
- The receiver can lean forward slightly for a new angle, or stay upright for max connection.
Comfort is key here. Adjust as needed, and always communicate.
Tips for Comfort and Support
- Knee pads or a folded blanket make a *huge* difference, especially for longer sessions.
- A supportive pillow at your feet helps stabilize and prevents leg strain.
- Try it on a firm but cushy bed – too soft can make balancing harder.
- Lube up generously to reduce friction and stay flowing effortlessly.
Pro tip from me to you: Don’t rush it. Just breathing together in this shape for a few minutes can feel surprisingly erotic.
Variations and Adaptations for All Bodies
Plus-Size Friendly Modifications
As a plus-size person myself, I’ll be honest – some positions feel straight-up like they weren’t designed with my thighs, stomach, or curves in mind. Luckily, the camel can absolutely be adapted to work beautifully with fuller bodies.
- If kneeling isn’t comfy, use a sturdy low ottoman or edge of the bed to sit on and mimic the posture.
- You can rest your chest on pillows or a wedge in front of you to reduce back strain.
- The penetrating partner can support themselves on their knees or use a cushion to stabilize behind.
Don’t be afraid to get creative. Comfort = confidence, and confidence equals A++ sex.
Adjustments for Limited Flexibility
If you have arthritis, joint flare-ups, or just find kneeling challenging (totally valid!), try this:
- Practice sitting on your knees for short times outside of sex to build tolerance – or skip it and use support immediately.
- Use a wide yoga bolster behind your knees so you’re semi-sitting instead of full kneel.
- Let the receiving partner lean forward more, customize your angles to reduce pressure on hips and knees.
Creative Enhancements with Props
Spice up your camel sessions with one of my favorite tools: sex furniture. Yep, it exists, and it’s amazing – especially for plus-size or disabled folks.
- Cushioned wedges can support the knees, torso, or hips depending on need.
- Strap-on harnesses work beautifully for queer or non-penetrative variations.
- A mirror can amplify the intimacy, adding a visual angle that’s super hot.
Props aren’t cheating – they’re playful, customizable pleasure tools.
Common Challenges and How to Overcome Them
Discomfort or Balance Issues
If the receiver feels like tipping forward? Been there.
Try spreading the knees wider, adding a pillow under the feet, or wrapping the top partner’s arms around the front to stabilize. A soft headboard can also give something to hold onto from behind.
Pacing and Rhythm Coordination
This position shines when you’re *in sync.* But if one person’s too fast or the angles aren’t matching?
Pause. Breathe together. Start moving hips *together* in a circular motion. Matching breath and pace helps you reconnect physically *and* emotionally.
Communication and Emotional Connection
Building Trust and Intimacy
I always say this: pleasure is physical, but *great* sex is emotional. The camel position builds trust by slowing things down and allowing whisper-close contact.
Be open. Tell your partner what feels amazing. Ask them. That vulnerability? That’s the real magic.
Using Feedback for Better Experience
During or after, check in with each other:
- “How did that feel for you?”
- “What part turned you on most?”
- “Want to try a variation next time?”
This feedback loop doesn’t kill the mood – it *fuels it.* Sexy communication is deeply underrated and wildly powerful.
Safety Considerations
Ensuring Physical Comfort
Protect your knees, hips, and back. Always have soft surfaces and props nearby, even if you don’t end up using them. Keep water and lube close (I repeat: don’t skimp on lube!).
When to Avoid This Position
Skip the camel if you have recent knee surgery, major lower back injuries, or if being upright for extended periods causes pain. That’s not failure – it’s simply adapting. There’s always another hot option (I’ll cover more soon!).
Conclusion: Is the Camel Position Right for You?
Here’s my honest take: the camel sex position surprised me. It offered way more than just a new angle. It gave me (and my partners) access to deeper connection, intentional movement, and inclusive pleasure.
If you’re curious, try it. If you’re worried it’s not for your body, let me be the voice in your head that says “yes it is.” With the right support, any body can feel sexy and powerful in this position.
Because sex isn’t a performance. It’s a conversation. And the camel is one beautiful way to have that conversation with trust, fire, and love.
